Start Black Dating

So you’ve been black dating for quite a number of years now. You’ve had a few partners at one time or another. And they really weren’t that bad. The problem is that you just can’t seem to find the “right one”.
This time, you find yourself a bit weary from all those failed relationships. Which is quite understandable. The problem is that Valentines Day is coming up and you suddenly find yourself alone as well. Oh dear. The cold weather starts chilling you to the bone. And we’re not just talking about the cold winter weather.
Here are some things that may help you shake off those January blues:
1.    Valentines Day is a celebration of love and not just a day for couples. Should you find yourself alone , don’t fret. Why not plan an activity with family or friends. Go to the spa or have your hair done. Get in touch with the real you. Being comfortable with yourself is the best place to start.
2.    The New Year is disappearing from our memories but have you kept to your  resolutions. Sure, you made them in good faith but did you keep them? It would be good to make resolutions that are achievable. And practise self-discipline this time around. Try resolving to be good to yourself, don’t be too hard on yourself.
3.    Think positive. It may be cold and wet now but January is nearly over and brighter days ahead. The coming year may just be your year to start black dating. So don’t let past hurts bring you down. By the same token, be thankful for the blessings of the past year and look positively at what 2013 will mean to you
4.    While you’re working on thinking positively , you may also wish to plan ahead. Come up with some new “black dating plans” for the year ahead. It could be that you may be dating the wrong way. Or that you’ve made a couple of mistakes along the way. These can range from dating the wrong people to outright attitude problems on your part. Examine yourself and your past relationships. Learn from those mistakes. And make a firm resolve to make the necessary changes. And plan on how to find those dates. Things such as getting out more or online black dating are excellent places to start.

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