|If this is what you’re going through right now, then maybe its time you took a break—a black dating break. Believe or not, quite a number of us may need a break from dating at one time or another. The problem is that some just don’t realise it. Or don’t want to acknowledge that they’ve got a problem.
This is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone tends to get worn out once in a while. But how does one know if he or she is in need of a “dating break”? Here are some things to consider:
- It seems as though you’re always hitting a brick wall: So you claim to have dated a lot of women. That’s all fine and dandy. And you’ve been quite successful with some of them. You’ve had more than just a few dates and have actually shared meaningful relationships with them. The problem is that these relationships don’t last very long. Or worse, they end up in utter chaos. Either you are left bruised. Or your significant other suffers the blows. And you’re back to square one – you’re all alone.
- By the same token, the last few “outings” can’t seem to go beyond a couple of dates. One particular lady didn’t even want to see you after the first date. Oh dear, things do look grim indeed.
- The scars of the past just don’t seem to heal. In all honestly, they may not. This is because of the seeming frequency between dates. In such a case, it is indeed advisable to take a break in order to allow the wounds to heal. Band-aid is only effective if it isn’t exposed to moisture. In other words, don’t keep trying to heal that broken heart by setting yourself up for a new one.
- You are starting to feel utter disdain for any member of the opposite sex. Oh dear, you’re beginning to become a woman hater. Not a very good sign. Remember that not all women are the same. Moreover, it takes “two to tango” in a manner of speaking. What we’re trying to say is that you may have had a hand in things going sour.
If any of these things are happening to you, then it is indeed time for a black dating break. Remember that this is your chance to fix yourself up and become a better person. Done properly, you will be in fighting form in no time at all. Good luck and hope to see you back in the black dating scene soon.