Monthly Archives: January 2013

Start Black Dating

So you’ve been black dating for quite a number of years now. You’ve had a few partners at one time or another. And they really weren’t that bad. The problem is that you just can’t seem to find the “right one”.
This time, you find yourself a bit weary from all those failed relationships. Which is quite understandable. The problem is that Valentines Day is coming up and you suddenly find yourself alone as well. Oh dear. The cold weather starts chilling you to the bone. And we’re not just talking about the cold winter weather.
Here are some things that may help you shake off those January blues:
1.    Valentines Day is a celebration of love and not just a day for couples. Should you find yourself alone , don’t fret. Why not plan an activity with family or friends. Go to the spa or have your hair done. Get in touch with the real you. Being comfortable with yourself is the best place to start.
2.    The New Year is disappearing from our memories but have you kept to your  resolutions. Sure, you made them in good faith but did you keep them? It would be good to make resolutions that are achievable. And practise self-discipline this time around. Try resolving to be good to yourself, don’t be too hard on yourself.
3.    Think positive. It may be cold and wet now but January is nearly over and brighter days ahead. The coming year may just be your year to start black dating. So don’t let past hurts bring you down. By the same token, be thankful for the blessings of the past year and look positively at what 2013 will mean to you
4.    While you’re working on thinking positively , you may also wish to plan ahead. Come up with some new “black dating plans” for the year ahead. It could be that you may be dating the wrong way. Or that you’ve made a couple of mistakes along the way. These can range from dating the wrong people to outright attitude problems on your part. Examine yourself and your past relationships. Learn from those mistakes. And make a firm resolve to make the necessary changes. And plan on how to find those dates. Things such as getting out more or online black dating are excellent places to start.

The ABC Of Black Dating Profile Preparation

If you take the time to think about what’s going into your Black dating profile, you’ll create something that other people will want to read.

Your online Black dating success relies primarily on the strength of your profile. A well-written, carefully planned profile can get you lots of responses, where a dashed-off, careless one won’t. Many people who have trouble Black dating online can trace their difficulties back to a poor profile.

You don’t have to be a prize-winning author to produce a good profile. Just following some simple rules can get your profile moving in the right direction:

Add a good headline

Most internet daters browse through profiles, looking for something that catches their eye. That’s why you need to come up with a good headline for your profile. Choose something humorous, or perhaps pose a question. Keep it tasteful, to avoid getting unwanted responses and keep it short and snappy so that browsers can read it all without having to go into your profile.

Be yourself

The majority of online daters are looking for someone with whom they can have a serious relationship. There’s no point in pretending to be someone you’re not, because it will backfire eventually. Instead, be brave and be yourself. Honesty is an attractive quality and there’s someone out there who’s looking for someone just like you.

Come up with a plan

Before you write you profile, make a list of all the things you want to say. Remember that you need to let people know what you are looking for, what you are like, your interests and hobbies, your age and anything else that you think will encourage people to get in touch. Write a couple of draft profiles and read them through or get someone else to read them so that you can be sure that what you’ve written makes sense. Only post your profile once you’re sure it says everything you want it to.

Avoiding Bad Dates – Great Black Dating in 2013

Just like anything else, when black dating there are good dates and bad dates. Here are some dates one should avoid.

The Married Man: a big no-no! Plain and simple truth of the matter is that he (or she) is married—long-term till-death-do-us-part kind of commitment and is mostly likely just out for some, adventure and will not likely leave his/her spouse for you. Think about it, would you really be happy being a “weekend affair” or whenever he/she finds the opportunity? You may be with someone but you’re still single.

The Serial Dater: the dating game is their expertise. In fact, that’s all it is to them—a game. These are the men and women who are just after sex and nothing more. They are smooth talkers and know what you want to hear. And once they have got you where they want you, pow! Before you know it, they will be nowhere in sight—especially if they have found more interesting prey.

The Liar: these people hide the truth just to impress or to get you into bed. The problem here is that someone who habitually lies eventually believes that what he/she has been lying about is the truth and just goes on and on. The simple fact though is that nothing can be hidden forever; lies will be found out. So sometimes, being suspicious has its merits, especially if the person makes some outlandish claims or has some inconsistencies here and there.

The Possessive Lover: these people are usually insecure and lack self-esteem.  They seem fine at first but as your relationship goes on, things like keeping you at home, constantly asking your whereabouts, and the like becomes everyday fair. What’s worse is that they themselves break their own rules—while you’re stuck at home, they’re out partying somewhere. So be wary.

The Rebound: these people are trying to get over the last relationship and think that by dating someone new, they can do so faster. This is fine but if they’re not ready to date, then trouble brews underfoot.

The Flirt: serial flirts, that is. They always want to be the centre of attention and would most likely only care about you when no one else is around to give them any attention.

The Social Misfit: this is basically trying to see whether you both share the same social beliefs or not—if you both mix well with each other’s friends.

The Boss: this should be avoided at all cost not just because sleeping with the boss raises some ethical issues but honestly, would you really want to be the centre of office gossip—that you slept your way to the top?

So be a smart dater and choose wisely. And while black dating, avoid being a bad date yourself lest people start avoiding you too.

New Year’s Resolutions For Black Dating

Get into online Black dating for a great start to the new year!

It’s the season where you promise yourself you’ll do things differently. A chance to grasp the nettle, take the bull by the horns and cliché your way to success. A new year is an opportunity to re-assess your life, think about where it’s going and where you want to be and take action rather than waiting for things to come your way.

So, let’s forget the diet and the exercise for now, and take stock of our personal life. Are you happy being single? If the answer’s ‘yes’, then stop reading this site and go out and enjoy yourself. If the answer’s ‘no’, then MatchMeNowBlack service could be the perfect start to your year.

 It’s none of our business why you’re considering online dating; perhaps you’ve run out of traditional ways to find a partner, perhaps you had a rough year last year and want to start again or perhaps we’ve been recommended by someone who found their perfect match through us. Whatever the reason, we’d heartily recommend that you get back into Black dating by taking a look at our site. That’s not just because we’ve spent a lot of time and energy getting it right, but because we know it works, and here’s why:

Time

 Nobody has lots of spare time these days. When we get home from work, we’re lucky if we have the energy to grab a meal before we go back out or just slump in front of the telly. Tonight, get yourself a drink and try MatchMeNowBlack . Time-wise, it’s the best way to look at the other Black singles that are available and looking for dates. Just browse through tonight, perhaps making a note of the profiles that appeal to you. Then log back on when you have a bit more time and explore the site further.

 Security

 Online dating through sites like MatchMeNowBlack are safe. You can create a username for yourself and you are in control of how much information you give out. We’d recommend that you keep personal information such as addresses, telephone numbers, workplaces and dates of birth to yourself until you’re absolutely sure of who you’re giving them to, and there are other articles on our site about how to arrange a safe first meeting and how to keep your personal information secure. The point is, you’re in control, and the first dating steps are taken from the comfort of your own home.

 Fun

 Remember when dating was fun? Well, Black dating brings the fun back. Once you’ve found someone who shares your interests and passions, you’ll be rushing back from work to see if they’ve left you a message and you can spend a long time sending those initial messages backwards and forwards until you’re ready to meet. When you do get together, you’ll already know a lot about each other, leaving plenty of time and room for some great dates. Enjoy it – it’s what dating’s all about!

There’s no time to lose. Check out MatchMeNowBlack today to see what you’ve been missing, and make a great start to your new year’s resolutions.